Here are some interesting snippets about Grandparent wealth and spending patterns when it comes to grandchildren. The info was pulled from an article by Monica Hatcher in the Miami Herald,
I don't know for sure, but seems to me part of why I spend money on my grandkids, and I don't spend anything near a trillion bucks, is I love to see them get excited. Another reason - I didn't have much in the way of discretionary income when my kids were growing up - I bought Christmas gifts in the 'last month's hot toy clearance aisle' at you-know-what-r-us or good books.
Seems to me, we worked hard to raise kids, thinking more about dangers, and accountability and consequences than about amassing material possessions. I had no time for drinking - and with kids underfoot, smoking funny weed was not even an option. I quit cigarettes long, long ago.
Now, I can ease up and be a great grandma, spend what money I have to please people I love, or I can sock it all away to pass on when I die. Now what fun would that be?